Archive for the ‘Gay talk’ Category
When to make the first move?
Okay, this isn’t exactly about porn, but when you go on a date with a new guy, when do you ask/initiate sex? Most of us like to be polite, and not seem like perverts, so it’s a tough call. Also, I’m not talking about a hook-up, but a real date. A few days ago, I [...]
The Art of the Online Hook Up
I’m not passing judgment when I say this–Lord knows that would make me a hypocrite–but if you’re reading this blog or if you’re into online gay porn at all, there’s a pretty good chance you’ve tried to hook up online. I have. There’s no shame in it. If you think about it, that’s really all [...]
Let’s talk about big ones
I don’t know about most men, but I love to look at a big dick, love to feel a big dick, I even like to suck a big dick. Getting fucked by a big dick is a whole different story. Granted, I’m not a major bottom, but I’m not sure how some guys do it. [...]
Gay Pride 2011 too much of a party?
Gay Pride has come and gone this year, and I had to think about what it meant. Why? I was invited to many events over the past weekend, and while each one was different in theme, there was one consistent: Sex. At the first party I went to, two of my friends left after picking [...]
Food, Sex, and Food & Sex
I’m hungry and horny, so naturally I’m thinking about food and sex. At first I was just thinking about food and thinking about sex, but my mind tends to combine things (which is how things like “cheesebear” and “assbutt” turn into my personal, favorite insults) so now I’m thinking about food and sex and at [...]
Something a little more serious
This month marks the 30th anniversary of the discovery of the AIDS virus, and a couple of days ago someone asked me to watch a documentary about the subject. It was devastating and terrific. For a long time afterwards, I had no desire to have sex and no desire to look at porn. Every time [...]
Stages of Gay
Recently, one of my favorite episodes of Will & Grace was on. It was the hour-long Thanksgiving episode where the audience finds out how Will came out to Grace. There are a lot of really great lines–Karen’s are fucking classic–but what stuck out to me was a line that teenaged-Jack had to pre-homo Will: ”You’re [...]
Let’s Talk Blowjobs
Watch porn a lot and you’ll see a thousand blow jobs in a thousand different positions. Once again, watching this stuff has gotten me to thinking about the best way to get a blow job; you know, so you get the most value for your buck. As far as watching someone get a blow job, [...]
The Quality of Being Gay
I’m about to turn 30. In the normal world, this isn’t necessarily cause for alarm. However in my world–the gay world–I may as well start looking into assisted living homes, buying stock in adult diapers and developing a love for old Matlock reruns and eating dinner at 4:30 in the afternoon. In our culture, the [...]
Sleeping With Friends
I have a lot of gay friends, a lot of male gay friends, and a lot of really cute gay male friends. I’d say I’ve slept with 75 percent of them. When I tell my female friends about that statistic, they think I’m nuts (no pun intended). For whatever reason, they don’t understand how I [...]
