When to make the first move?
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Okay, this isn’t exactly about porn, but when you go on a date with a new guy, when do you ask/initiate sex? Most of us like to be polite, and not seem like perverts, so it’s a tough call. Also, I’m not talking about a hook-up, but a real date.
A few days ago, I had one of these. Nice, successful, handsome man. He was well dressed, a bit nervous, and tons of fun. He also makes a lot of money, and has that successful air about him—but in a good way. Halfway through dinner I wanted to go under the table, stick my hand on his cock and jerk him off. I refrained. But he was really hot!
After the date, which I knew went well, we were out on the cold street and it was pouring. It was an awkward moment, because we were both headed in opposite directions, and getting a cab was going to be tough. He turned to me, said he had a great time, and…shook my hand.
Yes, it was polite and sweet and I was hard a rock. The next day I sent him a message saying I thought he was hot. He wrote back and said, and I quote, “You made me wet.”
Wow! Since then, we’ve flirted a lot, and my gut tells me there will be sex on the next date. Still, I don’t want to seem like a pervert. And I wonder what would have happened if I’d grabbed his cock. Assuming all goes well, I think I’ll ask him what his reaction would have been. Maybe I’ll post it here.
-David
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