How do the pornstars do it? Or: The blog post about cumming
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How do you think porn stars hold it in for so long before they shoot? Honestly, I have no idea. I know that clips are not fluid, and there’s lots of editing. Does that mean that stars cum, then wait a bit, and do it again? Or do they do it again only if they cum too early, or in the man’s ass?
I’m naïve about this kind of stuff, and I’ve never taken Viagra. I’m too embarrassed to ask friends, as I assume they’d laugh if they realized I was so naïve. Is there something about Viagra that allows you to stay hard without cumming? Or are these men just extremely good about knowing how to hold it in until just the right time? If that’s the case, then boy do I need to work on my sex skills!
When I’m with a guy, and start to get to that point, I tell him that I need to slow down. It’s rare that I’ve heard a man say “already”? And believe me, it’s not the 20 minute mark that these guys in porn have. Sometimes I even pull out for a bit, and just kiss till I’m not so wound up. Or I just fuck a lot more gently. If I go at the same momentum for a long period of time, I tend to go limp. But in porn, they slam these men for what seems like eternity. I can’t imagine fucking that hard and not cumming immediately.
This is starting to sound like a Dear Abbey letter, but now I’m really curious to know if I’m missing something, or doing something incorrectly. Also, I don’t tell men this, but I would just assume cum within a few minutes, at that point where I see he’s incredibly hard too. I tend to tell him to cum, wait till I see it, then let go.
Is this wrong? Should I be waiting longer, like the guys in porn? I’m starting to worry that all my dates think I’m too fast.
-David
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